Many things you are doing may be killing your husband silently and you may never be aware of it.
You may be doing all your wifely duties to the best of your abilities and yet your actions, reactions and inactions may be killing your Husband, one day at a time.
Here, I will show you 19 things you are doing that may be killing your husband.
*1: Putting him down in public:*
When you put your husband down in front of others, you kill him inside of him without knowing.
Never criticise your husband in the public.
*2: Showing him how better you can do something better than him:*
You may think you are doing well by doing this or by showing him you are better, but you dont see you are damaging his ego. Never sound as if you are competing with him, your marriage does not need that.
*3: Constantly bashing and criticising him:* Bashing your husband, blaming him, criticising and condemning him. Constant criticism can chip away at his self-esteem and cause emotional distress.
You says, “you always do this” every time
4: Hold him responsible for your emotional wellbeing
5: You blame him for what you don’t have: You feel and say he is the source of your problem, you blame him for everything you lack or need.
6: You don’t take care for your outlook: You Look shabby in your dressing and you don’t care. I know you don’t know how your look affect him, if you dress well he will feel right.
7: You don’t appreciate his efforts: No matter what he does, you don’t appreciate him, he is not just measuring up to your standard and does not deserve your praise.
8: You respect other men more than him: if your husband praise other Women beauty in your presence I know you will feel bad about it, that is how it is when you respect other Men More than him, it hurts him and damage his ego.
9: Ignoring his emotional needs: Disregarding his feelings and not providing emotional support can be damaging to your husband's mental well-being.
10: Being overly controlling: Trying to dictate his actions or decisions can lead to feelings of resentment and frustration.
11: Neglecting his physical health: Not encouraging healthy habits or supporting him in maintaining a balanced lifestyle can contribute to health issues.
12: Withholding affection: Lack of physical intimacy or emotional connection can lead to feelings of rejection and loneliness.
13: Not communicating effectively: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings and unresolved issues, causing strain on the relationship.
14: Being financially irresponsible: Overspending or mismanaging finances can create stress and strain on the marriage. The better you spend Money the less stress he will have, but if you are extravagant and wasteful with his money you will be killing him slowly.
15: Disregarding his interests: Not showing interest or support in his hobbies and passions can make him feel unappreciated.
16: Being dismissive of his opinions: Dismissing his thoughts or ideas can make him feel undervalued, abused and unheard.
17: Failing to show appreciation: Not expressing gratitude for his contributions and efforts can lead to feelings of unimportance and resentment.
18: Allowing conflicts to escalate: Not addressing conflicts or handling them in a healthy manner can lead to unresolved issues and ongoing tension in the relationship.
19: You deny him sex regularly: When he desire you, you push him away, you are full of “not tonight darling”.
You make him to struggle with lust and desire for sexual fulfilment make him struggle.
These are some of the reasons why most men die earlier than their wives.
