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Relationship does not die or end on its own, people are the ones that end and kill relationship.
Relationship is like a garden, it must be taken care of, it must be nurtured if it's going to blossom.
For you to be able to properly take care of your relationship, you need to to avoid these things your relationship.
Some of them are listed below...
1. Pride
This is a feeling that you are better than everyone else even the person you're in a relationship with or that you are doing someone favor by being in a relationship with him or her.
When you are prideful, you will be feeling entitled, that it's your partner duty to make the relationship to work after all you're doing the person a favor. The truth is, you are not doing anyone a favor by being in relationship. Be humble.
2. Neglect
What you neglect will die. If you neglect your relationship, it will die naturally.
When a farmer neglects his garden, it will be overrun by weeds and the things he planted will be suffocated.
If you don't have time for your relationship and partner, you're always too busy, you don't have time and all that. Mr worker, just know you're digging grave for your relationship.
Give your relationship attention. Create time for it.
3. Over familiarity
Being too familiar is not healthy for relationship. Respect and value tends to reduce after all there's nothing more to know about the person. You've known and seen everything.
Avoid over familiarity otherwise you will take each other for granted. Establish some boundaries.
4. Insensitive
This is when you are too busy or careless to notice some details about your partner. Your words and actions are hurting the person but you're too careless to notice. You're partner is having some difficulty or emotional swings but you don't care.
Take time to observe your partner. Ask questions when you notice some changes. Put your eyes for ground.
