When you are in a relationship with a guy, you may have the urge to know whether he loves you or not. This is not unexpected considering that many today mistake lust for love. Some even deliberately promise love whereas they are out to deceive
a matter of fact, this is a mutual feeling or practice but since it is a lady that asked this question, it would be wise to concentrate and address her need.
Relationships are usually full of fun and excitement. You are both attracted to each other and never seem to have enough time to be together.
In the beginning of every relationship, the couple involved need time to get used to each other. Everything does not just fall right in place in one fell swoop.
However, for the lady who wants to be sure that her man truly loves her, here's a few checks that could help in confirming if he actually means what he professes.
1. As already noted, when love arrows hit the heart of a man, he never seems to have enough of your company. Every moment he stays without you is a torment. You have almost become an addiction to him. He enjoys your company a lot and always feels happier to spend more time with you. Those moments of separation are filled up by numerous phone calls and chats.
2. He is not eager to take you to bed. Most fake lovers are only looking for ladies to sleep with and was they violate the lady's virtue, they scram. A guy that is genuinely in love with you would not be mounting pressure upon you for sex.
3. He unconsciously begins to factor you into his dealings. You could hear him use expressions like 'we' instead of personalising matters. This means that he has begun to see you as part of his life.
4. He is enamoured by your good side and hardly notices the other side of you. Even if he does, he glosses over it as if it does not matter. And, truly; it doesn't. What matters to him is his feelings for you; a man in love has no eye to notice human frailties or bother about them.
5. He is considerate about your point of view and does everything with a mind not to hurt you. If for any reason he does so mistakenly, he quickly apologises and makes up for it.
6. He wants to flaunt you before his friends and family. He hates to see you in the dark and would rather you meet his loved ones. For him to go to this extent means that he is proud of you and most likely wants to take the relationship a notch higher.
7. He opens up to you and reveals things about himself without your prompting. He takes you into his life - his strength and weaknesses; what makes him happy or sad and by so doing, is gradually preparing you for a deeper relationship.
8. He makes you his confidante and runs to you during his low moments. Seeking your shoulder to lean on at such moments means that he sees you as a significant part of him. That is why he values your encouragement and counsel and does not hesitate to come to you, even during his moments of triumph to celebrate with you.
9. He makes you a priority in his plans. Other things begin to take secondary place in his life, as he accords you the number one place in his heart even if his friends begin to complain.
10. He cares for your feelings and hates to see you sad. He is ever supportive and helps you out in whatever way he can whenever you are in need. He needs to reassure himself that you are happy and strives to make sure that you remain so.
11. The same way he introduced to his friends and family is now he wants you to do to him. When a man itches to meet the family and friends of the lady he is in a relationship with is a sure sign of love.
There may be other checks but these few could guide any lady. If your man passes these checks or most of them, the chances are more that he loves you. Don't hesitate to reciprocate.
However, be prayerful and commit your ways unto the Lord.
