1. Give Him Space
You don’t need to be buzzing around him all the time. Give him the opportunity to hang out with his friend’s guilt free.
All men want to hang out with their male friends and talk without restraint.
Sometimes in colorful language that will make your ears burn, if you are there. It feels like he is allowing you to vent. He needs this time away with his boys to have that feeling of being single even if it’s for a few hours.
Let him get out all the lewd language and jokes that he can’t say in front of you, out with his friends.
It can be therapeutic for men, for some reason.
Let him get that phase out of his system and his life and perhaps very quickly, realize how much that is played out and hanging out with you is all he needs.
It will happen eventually and you will both be better for it.
2. Boost His Ego
Nothing makes a man happier in his relationship than the fact that he feels valued by his woman.
His woman makes him feel like a superhero and like a man who can do anything.
Make sure you hype that man to his face, his friends and family and he will worship you.
3. Make Him Feel Important
One of a man’s secret desires is the need to feel important. It’s the food every man desires to eat, and if you care enough to know, it is far more important than his desire for sex!
The need to feel important is one major way to make a man crazy about you.
If you convey to him that you welcome and solicit his advice and opinions on everything you are trying to accomplish, he will go crazy for you for sure.
Experts on relationships will assure you that letting a man lead and feel important in the union will make for a very successful relationship.
Ask for his help also in carrying out tasks whether around the house or on official grounds.
Let him handle predominantly masculine tasks for you, like taking your car for servicing, lifting heavy stuff and fixing minor electrical problems in the house.
You are wise to boost his masculinity and not to emasculate him. A man who feels you make him feel like a man, will be stuck on you, like the proverbial glue.
You are basically giving him the tonic of self-confidence and ego boost he needs to go out into the world and conquer.
4.Control The Conversations
This is basically the simple rules of communicating in a relationship that ensures control on your end.
Love is a game that can be played satisfactorily by both parties, for as long as they want.
For your case however and in this context, make sure you end conversations either face to face on the phone, first.
That means you exercise an element of control over him that keeps him plodding away looking to gain your full attention at all times. He also wants that measure of control.
Carrying this strategy on will challenge him and see you as a prize he has to have.
This will go a long way to make him crazy about you. Take my words for it!
5.Its Okay To Say No
It is hard to really invest in something long term that you got really easy. Just like something falling into your lap.
You can’t really appreciate it as much. So goes a woman who does not put up a fight in anything, from arguments or discussions.
Do not be quick to say yes to everything he suggests, because it makes you look like a pushover. Your man expects a back and forth sequence in his interactions with you.
He respects you even more when you show a backbone when talking to him.
I am not advocating being rude or disrespectful, but sometimes it does not hurt to put your foot down and let your man know you don’t see things his way all the time and you may have a different opinion.
Trust me, he may act exasperated, but he secretly looks forward to engaging in that mental battle with you, that gets really spirited and then leads to other fun activities. Your man loves that for sure.
6.Self Therapy
Invest in your mental and physical health. Engage in activities that give you joy and happiness.
Your happy, confident, go lucky disposition will be irresistible to your man and he will always desire your company. Fact here is this does not have to cost you much to achieve.
Read books, go to self-help seminars, sign up to a gym, go for long walks to release endorphins that energize you. Hang out with good friends with the same cheerful disposition, so you all share that positive vibe.
Everyone likes hanging out with people who are always cheerful and optimistic.
Your man is no exception. He won’t hide his obsession for you when you are the reason for his smile.
7.Love Notes
You need to invest in proper penmanship or the gender reflective version of that term.
It is one thing to comment on social media and engage in PDA.
The most romantic way of verbalizing your love for your man is writing words of profound love on perfumed notes and dropping them on the floor of his wardrobe, his briefcase and dashboard.
Just anywhere he can easily find them and soak in the mushy, heart lifting words.
It is powerful and romantic for your man when he has a woman who takes that effort to uplift him and make him feel loved. Be sure, love is all you will get in return.
8.Understand His Habits
Want to make him crazy about you? Make the effort to get to know him beyond the physical level.
Understand how his mind works and what drives him. This leads to his habits. The little things he does that makes him feel sane and the most comfortable, with you around or alone.
Habits like how he likes his meals, how he takes his coffee, morning habits, meaning, what he likes to do first thing in the morning.
When you identify these core habits, act on them and make him feel he isn’t crazy for acting in the way he does.
Your work is to uplift him and not to bring him down. Guaranteed to make him adore you.
9.Do Not Be A Bore
Avoid being the boring girlfriend. Nagging, finger snapping and unduly disagreeable.
Be the woman he fell in love with at the same time maintain the level of respect you have always shown him.
He is with you because of the natural and mature way you conduct yourself, so don’t start applying strange new techniques you picked up from the internet or some dodgy friends to start acting weird.
Do not try to change him also, because one of the reasons he is with you is because you allow him to be himself.
You don’t laugh at his ideas or make a mockery of his core beliefs. Instead elevate him and support him any chance you get.
Be the light in his life.
10. Be Original
Embrace all the flaws and kinks about you that make you unique. All the quirky and crazy attributes that made him fall in love with you.
If you, in an ill-advised state, decide to change parts of your personality, he will find it strange and think you are fake.
Keep being you, with just some minor improvements and adjustments because we all have to evolve in some way.
He is with you because of the qualities you possess that are different from the other girls he has been with and those around him. He loves your uniqueness for sure.
