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If you have been noticing that he is barely responding to your texts or not talking to you for long hours like he used to, it is a sign of worry. Moreover, if you feel that he isn’t enthusiastic about chatting with you but takes out time to call others, it may be an indication that he doesn’t want to be around you all the time. However, remember that this may not always mean that he lost interest because this can happen naturally as a relationship is not as new.
2. He has started making excuses
He used to be there for you, taking time out from meetings and work. However, now he has started coming up with excuses about tight deadlines and urgent meetings at work whenever you ask him to spend time with you. Also, he avoids making plans or spending time with you, citing unjustifiable reasons. All these could indicate disinterest.
3. He has stopped asking questions
When your partner asks you questions, it helps them understand and know you better—how things are at work and with friends and family or how you are dealing with a specific situation. When he stops asking questions, it may show that he is not interested in checking on you and would like to keep to himself.
4. He acts rude and defensive
The man you fell in love with was sweet and friendly. He used to share all the little details with you. But now, he has become cold and rude. If you ask questions and want to know the details, he gets annoyed and defensive. Moreover, he ends up making snide comments or offensive jokes to ward off your questions. These show that he has no interest in engaging with you.
5. He doesn’t notice anything about you
He used to notice every little change in you, whether it is a haircut, a new dress, or a new dish you tried your hand at. He used to do little things to make you feel special, like offering you comfort when you are in a bad mood or giving you his jacket when you feel a little nip in the air. However, now those small gestures of love have died down. Try to find out if he’s just busy or there is something going on.
6. He doesn’t consider you a priority
When he no longer takes you into consideration, it may indicate that you are not a priority. He will prioritize his time and plans instead of trying to adjust according to your needs. It shows that he is no longer interested in involving you.
7. He doesn’t support you
He is no longer interested in your dreams, aspirations, and needs. He doesn’t support you in your important decisions in both personal and professional life. Moreover, you may feel that you can no longer look up to him or trust him in planning your goals or celebrating your achievements.
8. He doesn’t go the extra mile
If your partner does the bare minimum to keep things going between you two, it’s a red flag in your relationship. He doesn’t want to go the extra mile to make you feel special, spend time with you, or keep the relationship exciting. You may feel that the relationship has become one-sided.
9.He’s Secretive
Being secretive can signify waning interest, often indicating a withdrawal from open and honest communication. When someone starts hiding aspects of their life or becomes less forthcoming, it can suggest a reduced desire to share and connect. This shift in behavior may reflect a distancing in the relationship, signaling a decrease in emotional investment and interest.
10.He Doesn’t Support You
He is no longer interested in your dreams, aspirations, and needs, displaying a sense of remoteness. He doesn’t support you in your important decisions in both personal and professional life. Moreover, you may feel that you can no longer look up to him or trust him in planning your goals or celebrating your achievements.
11. He Doesn’t Discuss Future Plans
If he stops discussing his future with you or stops involving you in decisions related to his future or settling down, it could be a warning sign. He may even show disinclination to put a label on the relationship or make it official. You may notice that he makes statements that indicate he is looking for something serious or suggest that his friends or family are not sure about the relationship.
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What To Do About It?
It is important to understand that, sometimes, communicating or expressing feelings is not as simple as it sounds. If you have a hunch, talk to your partner and understand what is going on with him. If he shares, you may work on it together as a team. His loss of interest may not even be related to your relationship. However, remember to prioritize your needs as well and do not be too harsh on yourself.
One of these things or a couple may not mean anything, but if many of them are there it may be time to have a conversation.
You may try the following tips.
Do not chase him: Do not make him realize that you are always available and dependent on him for your happiness. Instead of holding onto him, love yourself, and be yourself. Be the strong independent woman you used to be.
Do not keep on waiting for him: If he is unsure about the relationship, you do not need to get your life off the track. Do not make yourself miserable. Live your life with your friends and family.
Be honest about what you feel: You cannot stir feelings or force someone to commit to you. Be true to yourself and understand if your partner is ready for what you expect out of the relationship. Ask yourself if you want the relationship to progress naturally.
Work on yourself: In the course of the relationship, if you feel that you have lost yourself in taking care of your partner, give yourself time. Be the best version of yourself that you loved.
